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  • I haven't had time to do my legs (I very because when I shave my legs break out in all these tiny bumps) and my last shower I took with Ava Nichol and she hated it so I have hairy legs and armpits but with the hot weather I am not covering up. I have just been letting my hairyness hang out.

    It isn't bad and I figure strangers at the store won't even notice.
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  • I am upset that I my EDD came and left and nothing :(

    So, DHs sister and her sons birthday is on the 15th so I really don't want LO to be born on the 15th because I want her to have her own birthday, not share one. FWP lol.
  • I totally understand! Hope your little one comes soon but chooses her own day!
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  • I usually don't talk about poo, but the past week or so it has been miserable trying to go. I'm sure it's because Peanut has dropped and is therefore smushing even more of my bowels than before, but this shiz is getting old.

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  • We keep baby wipes on hand for puppy and just little messes. Lately I have been using them to clean off my fingers from makeup or wipe of doppler gel. 

    The other day we ran out of toilet paper and I used baby wipes instead. I figure, if works on a baby's bottom, why not mine? DH totally side-eyed me. 
    Congrats to my TTC buddy Madeline! Cheering for all the strong 3T ladies! 

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    BFP 7/6/2013; EDD 3/6/2014 
    Diagnosed with Pre-E: 2/15/201
    Emergency induction: 2/16/2014
    Baby E born: 2/16/2014 at 12:56pm. 5lb 15oz



  • I don't want Adalyn born on anyone else's birthday either, except for my sister (October 7th). Mainly I don't want her to come on her due date because its DHs aunts birthday, and I know that would get under my MILs skin to hear every year that they share a birthday...I wouldn't care that they share, but I don't want to hear another complaint from my MIL about her..They have a weird competition/rivalry and I want to stay way away from it.


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  • @madeline10L, I totally understand! This week I have been getting constant texts from everyone asking if it's time yet. My dad has been texting me and calling me every hour asking if I'm okay. I tell him yes I'm fine and I'll call you if I decide its time and he said he wants to be the first one to meet her. I get it he's excited but it's already annoying.

    I told DH that in the delivery room I only want him no one else. Every one is okay with that but they are already planning on going to the hospital when I arrive there. I told my mom if I happen to make it to my inducement appointment that they do not have to arrive with me since the doctor said I'll probably begin pushing the next day and I don't think they liked that.

    I plan on just texting everyone when I'm going to start pushing and then by the time they arrive DH and I will have time with LO alone. But I'm already annoyed by this.
  • @caseyandlizzie have you tried anything to help you go? I have always had issues going and now being pregnant and being on iron pills it's worse now but I haven't tried anything. I'll usually just go on my own in a few days but it hurts to go.

    I hope you go soon, lol.
  • @caseyandlizzie have you tried anything to help you go? I have always had issues going and now being pregnant and being on iron pills it's worse now but I haven't tried anything. I'll usually just go on my own in a few days but it hurts to go. I hope you go soon, lol.

    Its not that I can't go, it just hurts like a bitch when I do.

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    “You can have your wishes, your plans, but at the end of the day, it's out of your control"
    - Gayle Forman
    "People talk about escapism as if it's a bad thing... Once you've escaped, once you come back, the world is not the same as when you left it. You come back to it with skills, weapons, knowledge you didn't have before. Then you are better equipped to deal with your current reality."
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  • Aahh yeah I've been there. :( no fun at all!!
  • @madeline10L, I totally understand! This week I have been getting constant texts from everyone asking if it's time yet. My dad has been texting me and calling me every hour asking if I'm okay. I tell him yes I'm fine and I'll call you if I decide its time and he said he wants to be the first one to meet her. I get it he's excited but it's already annoying. I told DH that in the delivery room I only want him no one else. Every one is okay with that but they are already planning on going to the hospital when I arrive there. I told my mom if I happen to make it to my inducement appointment that they do not have to arrive with me since the doctor said I'll probably begin pushing the next day and I don't think they liked that. I plan on just texting everyone when I'm going to start pushing and then by the time they arrive DH and I will have time with LO alone. But I'm already annoyed by this.

    Trust me... you need to let these people know that you appreciate their excitement, but that they don't need to text you constantly to see what's going on.  You'll be a lot less stressed out if you let them know.  We had to flat out tell DH's mother that she was NOT allowed to call and discuss anything baby related or else we'd hang up on her.  It was stressing me out and as we got closer and closer to my EDD, it was getting me discouraged.  The last straw was when she asked me if my vagina was puffy and I threw the phone across the room onto the couch next to DH and told him that I was done with it.  We told everyone that if they hadn't gotten a call from us, that everything was fine and it was not baby time.
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  • This morning I had issues finding a parking space in the garage at work and when I finally did find one, it was a tight spot. I opened my car door and realized my belly was too big for me to squeeze out, so I had to continue circling the garage until someone left.

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    My new bff Gayle Forman!

    “You can have your wishes, your plans, but at the end of the day, it's out of your control"
    - Gayle Forman
    "People talk about escapism as if it's a bad thing... Once you've escaped, once you come back, the world is not the same as when you left it. You come back to it with skills, weapons, knowledge you didn't have before. Then you are better equipped to deal with your current reality."
    - Neil Gaiman

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    Lizzie's book recommendations, liked quotes, book clubs, book trivia, book lists (read shelf)

  • I really miss wine. I've had a sip here and there but I really really really just want a whole glass. I always thought I'd happily give it up pregnant but I miss drinking socially at family dinners.
    Congrats to my TTC buddy Madeline! Cheering for all the strong 3T ladies! 

    TTC since March 2012; DX: PCOS 4/2013 
    BFP 7/6/2013; EDD 3/6/2014 
    Diagnosed with Pre-E: 2/15/201
    Emergency induction: 2/16/2014
    Baby E born: 2/16/2014 at 12:56pm. 5lb 15oz



  • @Madeline I am bored being at home (Monday will be my third week on leave), but it's WAY better than being at work.

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  • Some if these reminded me: I don't plan to tell mil when I go into labor with future baby 2. We very specifically told people we didn't want anyone waiting at the hospital. 5 min after E was born the nurse asked if I wanted to see my visitor. Mil had been at the hospital the whole time. I was so mad. We made her wait until we had some breakfast, but next time I plan on calling her after the baby had arrived.
  • Ladies-I had planned on telling a list of people when we knew it was time. Well when we went to the hospital and the doctor said she wasn't letting me leave without a baby...I realized I didn't want to tell anyone. My mom was there and my little brother so my Stepdad swung by and picked him up on his way home from work. DH met us there a little later. My mom called and told her work. That was it.

    DH decided to tell his mom around 10pm when they decided to start some pitocin. He told her not to come to the hospital. Well sure enough a few hours later she showed up. Not cool MIL. Fate stepped in and made her have to go to work (drive a school bus) For 2 hours so she had to leave just before I started pushing and got back shortly after I had her. We did tell some people while I was laboring but not me...my mom and DH kept people informed so I don't even know who knew what.

    Anyway, what I am saying is that it is okay to wait until the last minute to decide who is getting notified!

    @lb1117 I didn't think it would be that tough to give up wine but man did I want some while pregnant. I think it was because I knew I couldn't have it.
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    I'm feeling "big" this week. My arms no longer fit in front of my belly :(

    Also, I purposefully didnt do laundry this week cause I knew we were going away for the weekend and it would force DH to do it today while I'm at work. He was gone on a business trip until very late Wednesday. Oops!

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  • @madeofawesome, I told my dad as soon as I go into labor I'll update you but it's getting annoying. If I actually go into labor on my own I will not call him right away. As bad as I'll feel about that I will not call them.

    I honestly don't even know how to deal with it. If anyone asks me about my vagina I would have flipped too! My SILs husband works for us and he texts DH every day asking if I had baby yet, it's really annoying DH and I.
  • I miss rough ST and I'm too scared to just do it the way we like it. Plus, DH is scared I'll break.

    I'm over this gentle crap. It's nice and all...but it's just not getting it done for me.
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  • Y'all need to come up with juicier FFCs!!!

    @lb1117, I had a glass of wine or two (or three) throughout my 9 months.  My kid is fine.  Even just a sip was good enough.
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  • I agree with @pb&amp;fluff but I don't have any juicier confessions lol. :(
  • @madeline10L, I totally understand! This week I have been getting constant texts from everyone asking if it's time yet. My dad has been texting me and calling me every hour asking if I'm okay. I tell him yes I'm fine and I'll call you if I decide its time and he said he wants to be the first one to meet her. I get it he's excited but it's already annoying. I told DH that in the delivery room I only want him no one else. Every one is okay with that but they are already planning on going to the hospital when I arrive there. I told my mom if I happen to make it to my inducement appointment that they do not have to arrive with me since the doctor said I'll probably begin pushing the next day and I don't think they liked that. I plan on just texting everyone when I'm going to start pushing and then by the time they arrive DH and I will have time with LO alone. But I'm already annoyed by this.

    Trust me... you need to let these people know that you appreciate their excitement, but that they don't need to text you constantly to see what's going on.  You'll be a lot less stressed out if you let them know.  We had to flat out tell DH's mother that she was NOT allowed to call and discuss anything baby related or else we'd hang up on her.  It was stressing me out and as we got closer and closer to my EDD, it was getting me discouraged.  The last straw was when she asked me if my vagina was puffy and I threw the phone across the room onto the couch next to DH and told him that I was done with it.  We told everyone that if they hadn't gotten a call from us, that everything was fine and it was not baby time.
    Ah, I had forgotten how crazy your MIL is. Good times.
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  • sgautschi said:

    @Madeline I am bored being at home (Monday will be my third week on leave), but it's WAY better than being at work.

    How many weeks of leave do you have?

    Madeline - I told H at least twice a week how I now understood why people take off time before the baby comes. Because you are effing miserable. I know B came two weeks early, but even though I was getting pretty uncomfortable, I was still glad to have something take my mind off how miserable I was and you really will want that time after your baby comes. I ended up going back when B was just shy of 10 weeks and I wish I could have had a full 12 with him. Even in the past week, he's gotten so much more interactive and fun and Henerally not as difficult and I wish I could be there with him.
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  • pb&fluff said:

    Y'all need to come up with juicier FFCs!!!

    @lb1117, I had a glass of wine or two (or three) throughout my 9 months.  My kid is fine.  Even just a sip was good enough.

    I will probably have a little for our anniversary, my birthday and holidays - family Christmas dinners etc. I am waiting for those special occasions :)

    Congrats to my TTC buddy Madeline! Cheering for all the strong 3T ladies! 

    TTC since March 2012; DX: PCOS 4/2013 
    BFP 7/6/2013; EDD 3/6/2014 
    Diagnosed with Pre-E: 2/15/201
    Emergency induction: 2/16/2014
    Baby E born: 2/16/2014 at 12:56pm. 5lb 15oz



  • If it cost was not an issue I would consider sex selection for a future child.

    I could hold you for a million years
    To make you feel my love.
  • And which sex would you want? And why?

    I am genuinely curious.
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  • lb1117 said:
    Y'all need to come up with juicier FFCs!!!

    @lb1117, I had a glass of wine or two (or three) throughout my 9 months.  My kid is fine.  Even just a sip was good enough.
    I will probably have a little for our anniversary, my birthday and holidays - family Christmas dinners etc. I am waiting for those special occasions :)
    That's what I did.  I will admit, I also passed by a Total Wine store when they were having a tasting.  I had a little sample cup of wine because I was craving it SO bad.  I obviously didn't want to get drunk, but I craved the flavor and the tang.  Now I'm not supposed to drink it because of my meds.  Boo.
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  • And which sex would you want? And why?

    I am genuinely curious.

    I have no preference for number two, but if we have another boy and if we decide to try for three I would want a girl.

    I could hold you for a million years
    To make you feel my love.
  • That makes sense. I thought I wanted a boy first but I got a girl and I love love love having a daughter. We are probably only going to have two and I would be thrilled with either but I lean towards wanting another girl. I thought for sure I would want one of each but I really don't care.
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  • That makes sense. I thought I wanted a boy first but I got a girl and I love love love having a daughter. We are probably only going to have two and I would be thrilled with either but I lean towards wanting another girl. I thought for sure I would want one of each but I really don't care.

    I think it would be fun to have two children that are the same sex, but I also want one of each which is why I don't really have a preference for the second.


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